Sometimes it's sad what we women do to ourselves. It's sad how we fool ourselves and put blinders on.
Ladies, if a guy tells you he doesn't want the word "fidelity" in your marriage vows and that he "fears" he won't be able to stay true to you, BELIEVE HIM.
He is not being "brave and sweet". He is being HONEST. Ironic that a cheater would be honest, but there ya go.
But not like he wasn't waving a big ole red flag along the way.