Monday, December 11, 2006

this is soooooooooo true....



Tonight, I thought my husband was acting weird. We had made plans
to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all
day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late,
but he made no comment on it.

Conversation wasn't lowing, so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed, but he
didn't say much.

I asked him what was wrong; he said, Nothing." I asked
him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said he wasn't upset, that
it had nothing to do with me, and not to worry about it. On the way home,
I told him that I loved him. He smiled slightly, and kept driving.

I can't explain his behavior. I don't know why he didn't say, "I love you,

When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him completely, as if
he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there
quietly, and watched TV. He continued to seem distant and absent. Finally,
with silence all around us, I decided to go to bed.

About 15 minutes later, he came to bed. To my surprise, he responded to my caress, and we
made love. But I still felt that he was distracted, and his thoughts
were somewhere else.

He fell asleep - I cried. I don't know what to
do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else.
My life is a disaster.


Missed a big deer today, but at least I got laid.


Cherrie said...

I just am so attracted to guys with such tremendous empathy . . .

Goddess said...

I do have to laugh, though, at the way we women internalize *everything*...LOL! Truth is, sometimes its just not about us.

Anonymous said...

I was just going to say the same thing, Goddess, about how typical it is for the woman to be so self-centred, needy and insecure as well as arrogant to think it's all about her and that he doesn't have a life outside of her world. Pfft. I hate chicks like that.